These 3 things are always overlooked    
   
    Divorce
     SELF HATE- Dislike of your Race
     Lack of Self Awareness (A curse of the African American Race)

It is not easy to look at yourself and say "I don't Love Me."  However, the truth is a lot of people don't.  By no means am I here to preach nor hold myself higher. I speak from a (past TIMELINE} tested place of pain and regret. The pain came from the hurt I felt for wasting so much time loving people and things more than loving My Mind, My Body and My Soul. The Regret came from the ​soft whisper of my inner spirit guiding me and I knowingly and often not knowingly chose not to listen. No matter how you view yourself, this is a form of Self Sabotage. When you disobey your inner voice, you are ultimately disconnecting your Trinity (Latin: Trinitas, lit. 'triad', from trinus, "threefold" Your Mind, Body and Soul.) The way you look has no bearing on how you feel about yourself. Most often than none the prettier/handsomer, the higher the denial of low self-esteem.


You have to build your esteem up until it is so high, you radiate a visual, spiritual and mental image that speaks Elegance/REGAL, yes, I said Regal. When you have High Self Esteem you never allow yourself to be compromised in any way.

  *Not SEXUALLY   *Not MENTALLY   *Nor PHYSICALLY
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